Five Minutes with Carla Zimbler
Carla Zimbler is the creative force behind Expiry D8, a bold work tackling the taboo of death through conversation, art and connection. Inspired by the global Cafés Mortels movement, Carla invites us to explore end-of-life topics through a speed-dating style format featuring death doulas, funeral celebrants, and green burial advocates. At the heart of the evening is BECKON, a haunting sonic installation created with Tilman Robinson, where bedside lamps from deceased estates become beacons of remembrance and reflection.
We sat down Carla ahead of Expiry D8 to unpack the inspiration behind the work and her hopes for sparking open, meaningful conversations about what awaits us on the other side.
Can you tell us more about the origins of the global Cafés Mortels movement and how it has inspired this work?
In 2004, Swiss sociologist Bernard Crettaz founded the first Café Mortel in Neuchâtel, describing it as a place to connect with ‘the truth.’ It was an informal, judgment-free gathering, with no agenda and no religious ties. In his book Sortir la mort du silence, Crettaz sought to challenge the secrecy surrounding death and foster open dialogue about the inevitable. Known as “l’homme qui porte la mort” (the man who carries death), Crettaz’s vision lives on through end-of-life doulas and death literacy advocates who continue to facilitate Death Cafes around the world. To reclaim and address the topic of death in an accessible space is to break the taboo and set it free. Similarly, I wanted Expiry D8 to be a much-needed release, like a deep exhale after held breath. A temporary but transformative environment which encourages people to unmask, share stories, laugh and normalise the conversation – over a cup of tea.
How do you see the speed-dating structure helping people feel more comfortable discussing end of life and death-care taboos?
Speed-dating provides a fresh approach to meaningful conversations, allowing guests to move from table to table, explore varied perspectives and share personal experiences. At Expiry D8, participants have the chance to ‘date a death doula,’ discuss alternative rituals with funeral celebrants, explore design thinking in death-care with academics and imagine the future of cemeteries with green burial advocates. By hopping between tables, guests can follow their own curiosity, find what resonates with them and freely navigate the space – perhaps even exchanging contact details to continue the conversation later. And who knows? A little romance at Expiry D8 wouldn’t hurt either 😉
What drew you to bedside lamps from deceased estates as a central element of the installation with Tilman Robinson?
Between waking and dreaming, light and darkness, day and night, sits a bedside lamp – an unassuming witness to life’s transitions, as both a switch and silent steward. I’ve always been drawn to the ones left behind at estate sales, bent and forlorn as if in mourning too. For BECKON, I’ve reclaimed these forgotten objects as instruments for phantom embodiment, mediation and reconnection. I envision these lamps as beacons, calling their departed owners back into the room and safeguarding their journey home. Audiences are invited to participate in this act of remembrance by sustaining the lamp’s glow as an expression of love. I imagine for a fleeting moment, the boundary between life and death might blur and a conduit for communication could form through this light. BECKON prompts reflection: where does our spirit dwell in eternity, and how do we signal to and honour those who have passed? Can we reconnect with them through the traces that linger in the belongings they left behind?
What’s the biggest question you have about the end of life?
Who’s waiting for us on the other side.
If you could choose one song to play at your funeral, what would it be—and why does it resonate with you?
Freedom at the 45th Floor by Pauline Anna Ström, because if I were to imagine a heaven, this is what it would sound like, amidst a gradient of colour and the echo of my sister’s voice.
Ready to talk about the inevitable? Submit an EOI for Expiry D8 here.